Majlis Merisik..

Pagi Sabtu..28.11.2009...

Hari ni ambil kesempatan untuk bangun lambat...lagipun overdos ngan ubat batuk...batuk belum hilang dah masuk 2 minggu..penat sungguh..Selepas siap2kan anak2..aku turun untuk sediakan breakfast..sebabnya belah petang nak bersiap ke Muar untuk majlis merisik Iwan, adik en Hubby yang no 3...Tiba2 ternampak bakul baju..baju bertimbun2..mau 2 round aku nak membasuh ni...

Aku cakap ngan En Hubby mohon pengertian..."tolong la basuh jap". Kalau tak lepas balik Muar malam ni la aku basuh..Tiba2 En Hubby cakap..malam ni?esok kan kenduri Rizal...ish...marahnya aku...sebabnya..terus terang la apa rancangannya..jangan la main suka2 hati jer plan...mesti tertanya2 kan?apa maksudnya..maksudnya ..bertolak petang ni ke Muar, tidur di PAgoh dan ke kenduri Rizal..kawan sekampung en Hubby...untuk tidak menegangkan suasana...aku cakap...eh...awak bagitau saya dalam hati ker?aku on mesin basuh...dan terus aku naik atas...iron baju dan siap barang2 nak berkampung di Muar...moral dan kesannya di sini..kalau la aku tak tau perancangan tidur di sana..tentunya aku tak bawa beg baju..kalau takde beg baju maksudnya..takyah mandi takyah tukar baju...so lain kali bincang baik2...apa plannya...tapi bayangkan kalau dalam perjalanan tu...hati sedang kepanasan..sedang menahan marah..sure tak bestkan...

ini aku saja2 ambil untuk menenangkan hatiku...

ini gelagat anak2 ku dalam perjalanan..Dina dengan buku2 latihannya..

Hana...makan..

Minum pulak..

Lepas tu kami main2 pulak..Mainannya..senarai pantang masing2...masa ni la kami meluahkan isi hati masing2..so reda la marah aku...hahaha....aku cakap..lepas ni kita letakkan senarai kat peti ais..senang ingat...

ini adikku yang nak merisik khabar...mak dan makcik bakal pengantin..tepak sireh dan cincin kat tengah2 tu?hai..MIL dengan ad hoc plannya..tak semegah langsung..bila tanya..dah settle...so lepas berbincang..keputusannya..majlis pertunangan akan diadakan lagi 2 minggu..13.12.2009.hantarannya ialah RM8384..ambil sempena tahun kelahiran bakal pengantin..jumlah barang hantaran untuk majlis tu nanti 7 berbalas 9..hantaran pulak..biras2 mau siapkan..hehe

en hubby dan hana...

Lepas merisik..terus ke rumah Pagoh..tidur di sana..anak2 aku main tak ingat dunia..kawan ramai...ye la..adik2 tiri aku ada 9 orang..campur anak pakcik 2 orang..riuh rendah dibuatnya..

ini nenek belah Pagoh

seronok tak terkira dapat makan aiskrim...

Tiha dan DinaHana..syok betul makan aiskrim kan dik...

Bertolak dr Pagoh lepas kenduri Rizal...dlm jam 2pm.sepanjang jalan dr Muar nak ke Tangkak...terdpat gerai2 menjual kupang di kiri kanan jalan..permandangan yang sangat cantik..singgah jugak membeli dlm 3kg..rm10 jer pun tapi memang banyak...heavy traffik bila sampai di seremban..aduhai...apa la masalahnya..sampai di Klang jam 5pm...

perut dah mula lapar...masak jer lah apa yang ada..anak2 ku dah minta kupang..so hanya rebus dan cicah..aku siapkan pulak cucur ikan bilis dan air teh...itu jer lah..ponat sih...bila time baca buku cerita kat Dina dan Hana..mata aku yang terlelap..berapa kali dina kejutkan..last sekali dia pun hilang...

Hari Raya Korban...

Raya Haji ni aku sekeluarga beraya di Klang..sebab Raya Aidilfitri hari tu dah di Penang..Hari Khamis aku half day aja..sebab semua staff lain dah bercuti..memandangkan aku beraya di Klang takde la sibuk2 aku isi form cuti tu..so balik dari keja terus ke rumah MIL, ada tugas menanti..isi beras dalam daun ketupat nasi..anak2 pun sibuk menolong sementara MIL menyiapkan rendang...

tadaa..berjaya disiapkan 40 biji ketupat...

sempat bergambar bersama ketupat yang dibuat...

adik bila suruh pegang ketupat..taknak..nak berposing kat kerusi jugak...

kakak...pandai isi beras ni..cepat...

haa...ini proses isi beras dalam daun ketupat..huh..bersepah2 sebab adik punya angkara...

papa..last call before pergi keja...

mama...ambil gambar kakak...

lepas selesai mengisi beras, aku dan anak2 pulang ke rumah..lepas maghrib kami ke Tesco untuk mencari ikan dan sayur untuk juadah open house esok...sungguh malang..ikan dan sayur kosong...wah..siapa yang borong ni...hmm...last minute preparation again....so ke econmart pulak mencuba nasib...dapatla ikan kembung 2kg yang berharga rm26.00..hmm..kalau kat penang...dah berkilo2 aku dapat beli...mahal betul..

sampai di rumah dalam kul 10.30pm...jam 11..baru kami mula memasak...bayangkan jam 11 mula..agak2 kul berapa nak menunggu ketupat tu masak..paling kurang pun 4 jam..means kul 3 pagi la baru leh tidur...tapi itulah tabiat aku dan en hubby..nak rasa suasana raya tidak kira di mana berada...itu menyusahkan diri namanya...sementara menunggu ketupat en hubby masak..aku kemas dan mop lantai pulak...huh..lega bila rumah dah cantik...

ketupat yang telah siap digantung oleh en hubby...gantung kat tangga pendek..bila cari kayu penyodok sampah..sudah ilang daa...

Esoknya..bila tiba hari raya..kami sudah bersiap dlm kul 8.30 pagi..si Dina dah siapkan telekung nak sembahyang raya...bila masuk kereta ja..hahaha..terdengar kutbah raya...nak sembahyang apa lagi?hehe..Sampai di rumah MIL...MIL masih di dapur..memasak...adik iparku dan birasku masih belum mandi..apa la diaorang ni...Raya la beb!!!mana leh mcm tu..Si Dina dah siap merungut2..Raya apa ni mama..pelik dia..tak best katanya...mana nak sama ngan di Penang nak..ini bandar...MIL masih memasak sampai kul 11..ish...tak paham aku...terpaksa la aku turun padang lagi..ingatkan dah bertungkus lumus di rumah..dpt melenggang jer time raya...hai..menantu hantu betul...ada ka patut fikir mcm tu...
Maklang family +++

Epi, maklang, Dina, Nureen, Angah and Adam

Jaja's family

tengah gaduh ngan Emil..her cousin..

Amani and her cousin Armani

mama dan DIna

Dina and Nureen, her cousin

Dina

Dina dan adik Hana

Adik Hana

Dlm kul 3.30pm..kami pun pulang ke rumah...siap2 kan apa2 yang patut sebab saudara mara nak ke rumah...cuma hidang2 jer..lain semua aku dah siap pagi2 tadi...

air sirap yang en hubby siapkan...

kenal tak Melia..revolver kegemaranku...ini aku beli kat Melia tahun 2004 kot...tadaa..."perkakas2"laksa...lupa lak nak snap kuah..sebab en hubby dok pok pek2..ini pun aku nak snap jugak...

deco...bunga ni aku tanam kat belakang umah tau...tuan umah..posing dulu tetamu lambat sangat..

selesai majlis maghrib jugaklah...semua family en hubby datang termasuklah parents Uya..biras aku...lepas selesai..kami siap2 pulak ke BBQ di rumah makteh sampai la jam 12mlm....

Touching Story..

The story was forwarded to me by one of my friend..

A father and Son story when his wife left him.

4 years ago, an accident took my beloved away and very often I wonder, how does my wife, who is now in the heavenly realm, feel right now? She must be feeling extremely sad for leaving a husband who is incapable to taking care of the house and the kid. 'cos that is the exact feeling that I have, as I feel that I have failed to provide for the physical and emotional needs of my child, and failed to be the dad and mum for my child.

There was one particular day, when I had an emergency at work. Hence, I had to leave home whilst my child was still sleeping. So thinking that there was still rice leftovers, I hastily cooked an egg and left after informing my sleepy child.

With the double roles, I am often exhausted at work as well as when I am home. So after a long day, I came home, totally drained of all energy. So with just a brief hug and kiss for my child, I went straight into the room, skipping dinner. However, when I jumped into my bed with intention of just having a well-deserved sleep, all i heard and felt was broken porcelain and warm liquid! I flipped open my blanket, and there lies the source of the 'problem'... a broken bowl with instant noodles and a mess on the bed sheet and blanket!

Boy, was I mad! I was so furious that I took a clothes hanger, charged straight at my child who was happily playing with his toy, and give him a good spanking! He merely cried but not asking for mercy, except a short explanation.

"Dad, I was hungry and there wasn't anymore leftover rice. But you were not back yet, hence I wanted to cook some instant noodles. But I remembered you reminding me not to touch or use the gas stove without any adults around, hence I turned on the shower and used the hot water from the bathroom to cook the noodles. One is for you and the other is for me. However, I was afraid that the noodles will turn cold, so I hid it under the blanket to keep it warm till you return. But I forgot to remind you 'cos I was playing with my toys...I am sorry Dad..."

At that moment, tears were starting to run down my cheeks...but I didn't want my son to see his dad crying so I dashed into the bathroom and cried with the shower head on to mask my cries. After that episode, I went towards my son to give him a tight hug and applied medication on him, while coaxing him to sleep. Then, it was time to clear up the mess on the bed. When everything was done and well past midnight, I passed my son's room, and saw that he was still crying, not from the pain on his little buttock, but from looking at the photograph of his beloved mummy.

A year has passed since the episode, I have tried, in this period, to focus on giving him both the love of his dad and mum, and to attend to most of his needs. And soon, he is turning seven, and will be graduating from kindergarten. Fortunately, the incident did not leave a lasting impression on his childhood memories and he is still happily growing up.

However, not so long ago, I hit my boy again, with much regret. This time, his kindergarten teacher called, informing me of my son's absence from school. I took off early from work and went home, expecting him to explain. But he wasn't to be found, so I went around our house, calling out his name and eventually found him outside a stationery shop, happily playing computer games. I was fuming, brought him home and whack the hell out of him. He did not retaliate, except to say, 'I am sorry, Dad'. But after much probing, I realized that it was a 'Talent Show' organized by his school and the invite is for every student's mummy. And that was the reason for his absence as he has no mummy.....

Few days after the caning, my son came home to tell me, the kindergarten has recently taught him how to read and write. Since then, he has kept to himself and stayed in his room to practise his writing, which I am sure, would make my wife proud, if she was still around. 'cos he makes me proud too! Time passes by very quickly, and soon another year has passed. It's winter, and its Christmas time. Everywhere the christmas spirit is in every passer-by...Christmas carols and frantic shoppers....but alas, my son got into another trouble. When I was about to knock off from the day's work, the post office called. Due to the peak season, the post master was also on an edgy mood. He called to tell me that my son has attempted to post several letters with no addressee. Although I did make a promise never to hit my son again, I couldn't help but to hit him as I feel that this child of mine is really beyond control. Once again, as before, he apologized, ' I'm sorry, Dad' and no additional reason to explain. I pushed him towards a corner, went to the post office to collect the letters with no addressee and came home, and angrily questioned my son on his prank, during this time of the year. His answer, amidst his sobbing, was : The letters were for Mummy.

My eyes grew teary, but I tried to control my emotions and continued to ask him: " But why did u post so many letters, at one time?" My son's reply was: " I have been writing to mummy for a long time, but each time I reach out for the post box, it was too high for me, hence I was not able to post the letters. But recently, when I went back to the postbox, I could reach it and I sent it all at once..."

After hearing this, I was lost. Lost at not knowing what to do, what to say.....

I told my son, " Son, mummy is in the heavenly kingdom, so in future, if you have anything to tell her, just burn the letter and it will reach mummy. My son, on hearing this, was much pacified and calm, and soon after, he was sleeping soundly. On promising that I will burn the letters on his behalf, I brought the letters outside, but couldnt help opening the letter before they turn to ash.

And one of the letters broke my heart....



After reading the letter, I cant stop sobbing. 'cos I can never replace the irreplaceable gap left behind by my wife....

For the females with children:
Don't do so much overtime. If you cannot finish the work, it must be some kind of problems within the company, and it is not your sole problem. Feedback to your boss. Endless overtime may not necessary be the answer to the problem. Take care of your health so that you can treasure and take care of your little precious.

For the married men:
Drink less, smoke less, cos nothing can replace your good health, not even business nor clients.Try thinking this way, are you able to work till your clients are totally dependent on you? or your boss is totally dependent on you? In this society, no one is indispensable. Take care of your health, so that you can take care of your little precious and your loved ones.

For those singles out there:
Beauty lies in loving yourself first. With confidence and loving yourself, you will see the beauty in other things around you. You will be able to work better and happier. Don't let your health be affected by your work or your boss, so nothing matters more than your well being.

Bunga Tangan-Part 18

Bunga tangan-nak yang fresh ke nak yang plastik?hmm...kita letak gambar dulu..then survey harga ya..kalau nak aku gubah...boleh ker?hehe




hmm..ini sesuai dgn baju akad nikah ni...
1)pemegang hitam..
2)riben hitam
3)bunga merah-boleh jer bunga apa2 pun...
4)final touch-maybe heart shape mcm tu...


ini pulak pilihan aku....sesuai untuk majlis sanding...
1)pemegang hitam..
2)riben hitam
3)bunga putih-boleh jer bunga apa2 pun...
4)final touch-maybe juraian diamond.

HASILNYA...

Ini bunga tangan untuk majlis akad nikah

Ceritanya begini...aku balik kampung untuk menghadiri majlis kahwin ni pada hari Khamis petang (11.3.2010)..so sebelum balik aku dah pesan pada Salmi agar cepat2 order bunga hidup..maklumlah..bukannya ada florist kat KB tu..paling tidak pun kedai india ja..itupun banyak bunga kekwa...

Bila sampai jer kat sana tanya dia dah order ke belum...jawabnya belum...mak aii..gelabah la aku...dah terbayang kesusahan nak ke Bagan Ajam. So keesokan harinya (12.3.2010) aku mencuba nasib utk order roses dr kedai India tu dan pengambilan akan dibuat pada keesokan harinya iaitu sehari sebelum kenduri..

Menjelang jam 5 ptg (13.3.2010).bila aku double check sebelum bunga diambil...hmm...bunga rose putih dan carnation putih takder..so aku dan Kinah bergegas ke Bagan Ajam pulak..Malang sekali lagi bila Florist dah tutup sebab kami dah sampai jam 6 lebih...pusing lagi menghala ke Jalan raja Uda..pun sama jugak..Nasib baik Nisa kawan si Salmi telefon bertanyakan apa lagi yang takde..so minta tolong dia tolong cari sama...tapi bunga dapat pada hari kenduri...hmm...takper la gubah sendiri kan...tawakal je la..

14.3.2010..selepas akad nikah...Lebih kurang jam 11 pagi..baru bunga carnation putih sampai..bayangkan dengan bunga masih kuncup...tak ker gelabah lagi dibuatnya...tiup pulak bg kembang..bila dah siap cantum..alamak..kocik plak dah..so apa yang aku buat..buka balik bunga tangan akad nikah dan combine dengan carnation tu...jadilah rupa mcm tu...

Bunga ni guna untuk upacara sanding..

Plan lain..jadi lain...

Gubahan Hantaran-Part 17

GUbahan hantaran..ini yang leceh ni...nak sesuaikan dengan tema...dah la ssf tu jauh ngan umah..kalau dekat..silap haribulan hari2 aku lawat kot...ok..ok..so far aku belum pilih lagi gambar2 hantaran yang berkenan..tapi upload dulu la gambar2 kot2 ada yang yang boleh memberikan ilham...
rasanya macam berkenan yang ni...bunga dulang guna gold ini lah..so wahai adik2 ku yang berada jauh di mata..silakan mencari bunga dulang ini....Ini boleh isi WANGIAN ker, WALLET & BELT ker..bekas dah beli ari tu...

hahahha...nak interprem jugak..ni dip flower aku wat semalam..konon2nya nak tolong buat ler kat si Namie ni..jadik ker?tp time nak memintal tu...susah betui...kena belajar lagi ni...

COKLAT ini pun berkenan jugak...tema dah bertukar...alah..utk hantaran jer..leh la....bekas coklat kan dah ader...

campur yang ini dah jadi 3 gubahan hantaran...ini untuk gubahan SIREH JUNJUNG..maybe tukar kaler bunga jer...

or camni....

camni ker...ha..pilih..pilih...

KEK..sweetnye...maybe boleh tukar kaler...dah boleh start cari kedai kek dah...

Cuma sekarang hanya perlu cari bekas isi JAM TANGAN,KEMEJA, KASUT, SEJADAH& TELEKUNG DAN GADGET..most likely kaler coklat matching dengan bekas2 yang dah beli tu...


alat solek..tp takkan namie nak bg shukran alat solek kot...

cuppies

wallet & belt

kasut

atau kasut ni..amacam namie..elok la tu...hehehe

kamera

kain

jam

duit kot..hehe..aper dlm tu..cincin ???

hiasan jer lebih..andaian....cincin holder

fruits

cincin lagi...

tepak sireh

tepak sireh

sireh junjung

pun sireh junjung

cantik jugak ni..

sireh junjung lagi....

dan lagi....

lagi..lagi..lagi...

perfume...

seangkatan dengan perfume...

perfume again...

wow..georgeous...

uih..lilit sanggul ni...


nice deco for cocholate..

lace & BEADS mmg suka coklat ni...aku rasa la..

hershey's

suka coklat jer..

mcm tak best pun ader..but extra deco will turn it out..

bongkah emas ni...

canteeeeeeeekkkkkkkkkk

as simple as that...

boleh tahan...